Saturday, February 28, 2015


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"Love isn't a state of perfect caring.  It is an active noun like struggle.  To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now."  --  Fred Rogers, The World According to Mr. Rogers: Important Things To Remember

Friday, February 20, 2015

12 LISTS // 2

I'm back with list number two!  Life has been chugging along recently.  I've been trying to figure out how to make taking photographs for my blog interesting.  I've never really enjoyed photography, and I can't seem to figure out how to make it fun.  My boyfriend suggested that I look at it less like a task and more like a challenge:  figure out what I want and then how to achieve it, rather than just jumping in and taking random photos.  Thing is, I don't really know what I want to achieve.

Either way, i feel like I'd get down and feel like what I was posting was boring.  I like when bloggers inject a little personality in to their posts, rather than just posting reviews or hauls.  I like seeing life shots, home tours, storage ideas, and more creative style posts.  Can I make those sorts of things?  I guess I could try.  I don't even know where to start.

  • my artistic ability
  • positivity
  • lipstick in general
  • most of my wardrobe
  • perfume
  • my hair
  • my height
  • listening to music while walking
  • but mostly red lipstick

Thursday, February 12, 2015


Let me be up front: I'm writing this post because I made a mistake.

Everyone makes mistakes.  This is a fact of life, just like the sky is blue and snow is dang cold (hang in there, NorthEast).  It can feel dang crappy when you make a mistake that effects someone's life other than your own.  It still feels crappy when you make a mistake that only effects your life, so.  You can connect the dots.

It's even worse when you make a mistake at school or work.  Society has built up a system that represents teachers, bosses, and other authority figures as parental units of some kind.  By making a mistake at work, you are inadvertently disappointing one of those figures (by some stretch of the imagination, stay with me here).  I'm just going to be straight with you: it feels like crap.

But the one thing to keep in mind (that even I  am struggling to keep in mind as I write) is that everyone makes mistakes.  The only way to really cope with it, however, is to just keep a few things in mind.

  • Own Up To It  //  Nothing good ever comes of trying to cover your mistake up.  Never blame anyone but yourself for something that could have been avoided by your actions.  This is important to remember if your mistake ends up effecting someone else.  Let them know sooner rather than later, and they will thank you for it.  Or they won't hate you, at least, which is something.
  • Damage Control  //  Can you do something to fix said mistake?  Do it.  Obviously you can't rewind time, but sometimes there are things you can do that will right the situation.  If it means getting burned for it, weigh the outcomes and decide what you can deal with.  For example, if you lose something belonging to someone, can you purchase them another one of those things?  It doesn't make the mistake disappear, but people will remember that you took the fall for them.
  • Apologize  //  A mistake is a mistake.  I always feel bad when I mess someone else's day up because of something I've done.  Apologize.  It may not fix the situation, but by showing remorse it will help.  Depending on the situation this may or may not be the most effective route, but it never hurts.
  • The Future  //  Can this mistake be avoided in the future?  Look at what happened and take steps to make sure it doesn't happen again.  Now, if you tripped and spilled your coffee on someone, there's not much that can be done.  Accidents happen.  Going back to my previous example: if you lose things that people let you borrow, maybe reserve a place for those borrowed things in your home so they don't disappear, or stop borrowing things.  Realize your own strengths and weaknesses and work to better yourself.

It may feel like you've disappointed everyone and their dog, but people are human.  They mess up just as much as you do and should realize that what you did was an accident.  Take it in stride, recognize what happened, and take steps to avoid making the same mistake in the future.

Remember:  You are human.  Human beings make mistakes.  That's okay.